Chris R. Parish


Life’s a Bitch, get over it!


We all know that life can be unpleasant at times and it may be difficult to control those times. We can scream or point a pretend gun to our heads or we could spit in the face of our foes. The outcome will be the same, more unpleasantness. I know you don’t want that!

A fun fact, though, you can make your life what you want it to be. You can choose to be happy in direct response to your problems. “Direct Response To Your Problems?” Yes, I wrote that correctly, you can just accept the things you cannot change, and thank your God for letting you experience LIFE! Because life has it’s up’s and down’s, it’s how we deal with it that makes all the differences in how you feel.

There are a lot of people who would jump at the opportunity to bitch and complain about the choices they have made. They don’t give a thought to making a choice to change it. Those are the type of people who would give a compliment to your face and then stab you in the back. It’s at those times you want to grab them by the neck and choke the living shit out of them. But, it’s also at the same times when you can remember that life’s a bitch and get over it. I always say, if you let someone control your thoughts, they will.

I’ve spent many hours jacking with tires on vehicles, pun not intended, and bitched and stressed about those moments. I would buy used tires every time I bought any tires. The same shit happened over and over again. It’s the definition of insanity, you know it, I know it! Then, something wonderful happened, I bought brand new tires and all those tire problems disappeared. They didn’t fade over time they literally disappeared. Some time after that I decided I would from that point on, buy brand new tires instead of the cheap used ones. Talk about life choices.

In moments of distress and in moments of happiness remember life is always a balance of the good and the bad. You can’t have one without the other. We can blame the old devil for that. Satan was once God’s perfect angel. Since Satan thought he could break away from the lord and try and take over, emphasis on try, and rule the world, it’s now the world unbalanced. But, all that being said, you can choose to live a balanced life and it’s an easy choice, just remember, life’s a bitch and get over it! Never forget how the choices in your life are ultimately controlled by your thoughts. You can choose to do your best and accept the outcomes of our choices at sole. You can’t change a choice you’ve made after it has been set in motion, but you can change the direction to take after the action was taken.

I discovered that life’s a bitch and there is nothing you can do about it. You can join me and accept the things you cannot change, do the best you can. Share your knowledge with others and guide them into the correct thinking process so they too can process life like we do. Whether you see life as a struggle or not, others still need your help because the struggle is real. It’s how you deal with it that makes all the difference in your life.

If you made it this far I must be doing something right.

You can also check out Our Chaotic World post from a few days ago.

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